My pronouns are they/them. Here are examples of how to use them.
- They are a policy evaluator.
- Ask them about the statistical package R.
- Their favourite way to get around London is by Lime Bike.
- This fabulous umbrella is theirs.
- Andi introduced themself at the meeting.
If you get it wrong, just correct yourself, “… sorry, they …” and move on.
The singular “they” has been around since at least the 1300s, e.g., featuring in William and the Werewolf. “Themself” may be unfamiliar; however, this reflexive pronoun has been around since the 1300s too, and has made a comeback.
Here’s my name.pn page.